Females are in perpetuity attempting to keep their hind quarters reddened by going after the bad boys trying to displease them so they get hair raising proper spankings regularly. In fact this is why women always do the wrong thing at the wrong time, they like being punished. Obsession is great, for a person's whole life to hinge on you, that they can't live by themselves without you, is a great honor, that they would either kill themselves, or kill you, or better yet prove how much they need you by striking out early and often, to keep you in your place at his feet, washing his footsies with your long hair, pulled in the crib from corner to corner with a dunce cap on. Women love it, they always don't know what to do with a real man, a good man, and so they would rather get involved in the never ending saga of bad love, or good and perfect hate, so they feel something in the nothingess of their empty hearts.