I'm pretty annoyed....I need to rant.

Thing is...
Some women that have kids worry about the WRONG things.
The things they shouldn't even be focusing on or doing.

I'll use my 2nd oldest sister as an example:

Age: 21. Has 2 kids. That she doesn't even take care of. I always end up doing it for her. She got pregnant at 17 on purpose, because she felt she NEEDED a child. Now she treats him like he shouldn't even be alive and literally yells "I'm not your mommy." "Go the fuck away, I don't want you.", and more awful crap I'm not gonna mention.
But she gets pissed when he starts calling me mommy because I'm the one that will feed him, give him a bath, a drink when hes thirsty, tuck him in and coax him to sleep, and more that she won't even thing to do for him. The kid is 3 years old. Anything he says, he repeats 7 times or more to make sure that you hear him because he's told "stfu" so much. He craves so much attention from her... its awful. He was never a happy baby. She was always so negative with him.
I mean.. one Summer Vacation I had to give up my plan with ALL my friend to take care of him so she could work. She never filled a single application. She just went around fucking random guys while she was already pregnant. Every day she went roaming around town. But he was always running to me because everyday I was right there at the house with him. Doing everything you have to for these little kids. And because it was just me, I became "Mommy". It pissed her off so bad she beat him and i flipped. There was NO need for that. She never treated him like he was her son. Or even played with him. When we went to the store, she would tell people he was my son... I was looked at like the whore she is. So to piss her off while she was doing that, I'd loudly ask Aiden, "Where'd mommy go? Whats she doing? SHe getting you some nom-noms?" (Yea nom-noms is my word for food with my niece and nephew) But yea she'd get mad because shed JUST whisper to someone that he was mine and she'd suck her tiny belly in (Carlee was a premature baby and I'm sure that probably harmed her cuz she'd did that a lot in public!)

As of my niece, her 1 year old daughter.... that's the only one she kinda pays attention to. But Carlee gets sick a lot and gets a rash a lot. My sister will make a bottle of milk, leave it to sit out, and like a day or two later she'd put it in the frig to later give to Carlee. No. I had to start opening the caps and smelling the milk if it wasn't a bottle I had earlier made for her. She was giving her baby diarrhea all the time till my mom and I started feeding her bottles and baby food the right way.
And the diaper rashes... Carlee would be sitting around all day in a diaper filled with poop or pee. For on, the ammonia in urine is really bad about causing those rashes. Really Carlee got all her attention from me like with Aiden. Every time Carlee got reallllyyyy fussy, I'd wrap a blanket around her and carry her around while she laid her head against my neck till she fell asleep (As boring as that constantly got) Eventually every time i put that blanket around her and picked her up, shes instantly lay down on my chest and go quiet. It was cute.

But....As for how my sister is with those kids....

I mean.... really? seriously?

To those that ACTUALLY take care of their own kids, I'm proud of you!
I appreciate you lol

I'm just so glad my sister moved out so I can get another job, but I'm worried about my niece and nephew. Idk if her bf will really be helping like he promised my mom. My mom forced him to listen to her and understand her crap with those kids. We really don't think he'll stay with her very long. And i'f anything happens to those kids... she's toast. lol